Ministries

Serving Those Who
Serve Others

Walking alongside ministry leaders, couples, and communities

Marty and Ruthann serving in ministry
Side by Side Ministries

Strength for Every Season of Ministry

Walking with ministry leaders through the challenges of life in service.
Equipping couples and communities with tools for lasting connection.
A warm, down-to-earth presence for your church or organization.
What We Offer

Ministry Services

Marty and Ruthann bring decades of combined experience to support individuals, couples, churches, and ministry organizations.

Speaking

Schedule Marty to speak at your services, retreats, or special events. With a warm, approachable style and a wealth of life and ministry experience, Marty connects with audiences wherever they are and leaves them encouraged and equipped.

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Pastoral Counseling

Together, Marty and Ruthann have frequently come alongside couples as they navigate life. They are available for consulting for pre-marital counseling, family life, the challenges of life in ministry, and navigating through a crisis. Marty is also available for encouragement and consultation with pastors and ministry workers.

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RelateStrong

Experience a workshop for up to 6 individuals or 4 couples. Marty and Ruthann are trained facilitators and trainers for this 2-day experience designed to grow connecting relationships, emotional regulation, conflict resolution, and new brain pathways. The Longcors have taken hundreds through this life-changing experience.

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Retreats

If your church or organization is planning a retreat on topics such as marriage, family life, or disciple-making, consider Marty and Ruthann as your speakers. They bring a warm, connecting, down-to-earth experience to your group — the kind that sparks real conversations and lasting change.

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A Place to Breathe Again

The Refuge

Geared for ministry and missionary couples who are in a tough season and need help moving forward. This is a 4-day, 3-night experience that includes a place to stay, some meals, a listening ear, and help to strategize next steps for the road ahead.

The stay includes time with the Longcors — unhurried time to be heard, to process, and to find a path forward.

  • 4 days, 3 nights — lodging included
  • Some meals provided
  • Personal sessions with Marty & Ruthann
  • Located near Indianapolis with nearby trails and parks
  • Designed for ministry & missionary couples in a difficult season
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Peaceful wooded trails near Indianapolis
Trusted & Tested

Trusted by pastors, couples, and churches walking through complex seasons.

Stories from people we have had the honor to walk alongside.

"It's been my great pleasure to know Marty and Ruthann 'up close' for 39 years. We served in ministry together for a season and have been close friends for a lifetime. One quality stands out above all others; they have a remarkable commitment to 'standing in the gap' with people. They know how to come alongside and help make hard lives easier. I can't conceive of a couple better equipped and or more capable of assisting folks to their next great season in life."

Ben Baier, M.Div.

"We've known Marty and Ruthann for about 15 years and have been so grateful for the connection! During an especially challenging time in our lives, Marty and Ruthann met with us and helped us carry the burden of a deeply painful time. We appreciate their love for the LORD, their insights and wisdom. Since that time, we have been back on track with God and ministering in our own sphere of influence."

Dan & Laura Leisher

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